Quote Originally Posted by Morgana96 View Post
Thanks for this reply because this is a perfect example of what I was talking about lol.

Automatically, you took a condescending "it's just you" tone with me, treating me as an outsider, even though I regularly play all four healers and this is an opinion I've seen voiced throughout FFXIV social media. This is one of the reasons why so many people are brushing several of you guys off as "assholes being assholes". Instead of elaborating on why you disagree or explaining your reasoning step by step with the abilities you have issue with, you jumped straight to a attitude which reads as "your opinion doesn't matter, so shut up".

It alienates you from those you're trying to convince of your plight almost immediately.
To be fair, the person they were replying to was being unnecessarily snarky