I’m glad you want to have a good faith conversation. But just so ya know, it’s hard to have a good faith conversation when players who have been maining healer for a long time are trying again to improve the situation, and someone comes in (who also doesn’t main healer) patronizing their experiences and emotions. (Such as saying: you just need to change jobs, do something different!).
Give people credit here that they actually are coming from experiences/emotions that have merit.They know how they’re feeling. Get to understand that. Edit: And trust me, the Healer forums and even r/ffxivdiscussion has spent a lot of time discussing these things. If you think you have a solution, you probably don’t because someone has already thought it up. Do some research instead.
I used to think back in ShB that the healer complaints were overblown. Especially since I mained Healer in WoW. After actually playing Extremes/Savages in EW, then hopping back into Roulette content…I found myself zoning out, looking at my phone, or even falling asleep in Deep Dungeons and other stuff because FF14 content is NOT challenging and Healers are just plain boring when the content refuses to allow them to do their roles as healers.