Entitled DPS, please stop being entitled

[Adire]

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Yeah, he was an oddball. He has multiple classes at 50, including bard now. He's also a 50 WAR, a 50 WHM, and a 50 NIN, as well as has all 3* crafts. So if he hasn't figured out by now that AoEing sometimes is a good idea...then yeah...

Please note, I have said throughout the thread that if most of the group wants exp, I do exp. I've said if asked nicely, I give them exp. So I'm not entitled. It's only in the event of a tie that I think tanks should have the final say so, because it's their job to pull after all. This situation was a tie, and I was not asked nicely or treated fairly. I offered compromise rather than behave as a dictator, and tanked the mobs he pulled out of goodwill rather than let him tank them. Only reading my OP can be misleading.

This thread was to share my story with others, and to remind people to treat others like human beings and leave the pulling to the tanks. As someone who has witnessed and experienced the bias against tanks that many players seem to have, that is why I'm posting as well. I do not experience these things as a healer or DPS nearly as often, and I even play DPS far more often than I play PLD.

Such a wise words from Elven, are you Urianger long relative?
Just chill and don't whine OP.

I'll whine if I gosh darn feel like it, I pay my fee like everyone else :P