Entitled DPS, please stop being entitled

[Adire]

But as a tank you are allowed to do it?

Well, as a tank you're intended to determine what should be pulled and when it is pulled, no?

The game is sort of designed that way O.o. it's the tank's job.

Besides, if we want to get specific and technical here, it was 2 wishes against 2 wishes. Me and my friend vs him and his friend. So who should get to decide what happens?

If your answer is anything other than the tank, I don't think you understand how the tank's role works.

[Mugiawara]

Well, as a tank you're intended to determine what should be pulled and when it is pulled, no?

The game is sort of designed that way O.o. it's the tank's job.

I feel like people are missing about how healers feel in this.
If you die because you pulled an overwhelmingly huge amount of mobs as a healer, then no one get mad at me over it.
What needs to happen is the tanks need to ask the HEALER'S on how big and small they should pull.
Or; if the healer nicely asks for small pulls or so because they're under geared or whatever reason, you either suck it up
or eat the 30. Not everyone can go at a tanks pace because they assume the healer can get on their level yet.
Some tanks are butt's. They really are and are not mindful, DPS's are too. Because once I did Bray, I said I couldn't do big pulls yet...I struggled.
I asked for smaller pulls then the DPS said "No just do big ones." and one time I got told I sucked as a healer because he pulled such a large amount of mobs
I literally used lustrate 6 times and SC heal and E4E still died...so...there's that.