The Devs need a much needed thanks!

[Vahlnir]

you ain't helping the situation..,
instead of deescalating, your adding kerosene

Yeah. I see this a lot around here. Seems like a fairly common tactic. Gotta escalate the situation just so they can say "See? They are irrationally angry over nothing!" when they weren't that way prior to being gaslit. That isn't every single person's intent who does this, but it certainly seems to be for a few regulars.