I can't be bothered saying this again, so I'll just quote myself.

Quote Originally Posted by Nestama View Post
Yeah no, that's bad play/griefing and it's outing yourself as a party dictator (it's also slowing the run down). Just tell them not to pull for you once everything is dealt with, or adjust to bigger pulls if the extra mobs didn't cause a wipe.

The only time small pulls > big pulls is if the DPS and healer are bad (don't AoE, don't DPS, undergeared, etc). Everyone controls the pace of the run. Not just the tank.
Quote Originally Posted by Nestama View Post
Mate, if you're choosing to do small pulls even after the Healer (and/or DPS) says you can do big pulls, then you absolutely are being a dictator. You're saying "I'm a tank and I alone decide how things are done." That is more impolite (heck, I'd even go as far as saying that's pretty damn rude) than a DPS/Healer pulling ahead and grabbing mobs for you.

There's no I in Team.