Quote Originally Posted by Kiarin View Post
Not tanking mobs that dps or healer pulled in is wrong and rude, but pulling them is also wrong and rude, maybe even more.
I'd say it's tipped the other way. Choosing not to tank extra mobs pulled by the DPS or Healer can/will cause a wipe (since the DPS and/or Healer are most likely AoEing the first pack, which means they're now on the extra mobs aggro table). Pulling mobs for the tank can go in two different directions, though. One can cause a wipe, but will hopefully show the DPS/Healer who pulled that what they did was wrong. However if everything is killed, then the tank now knows they're with a group of people who can handle/prefer big pulls.