You guys are ridiculous, I swear.

"It isn't my responsibility", "it isn't my job", "content isn't designed around me DPSing", "DEVs didn't intend me to play in such way".

lol.

Watch, it's this simple. You have a job with 50 spells. You are only using 30. You are not optimal. Go apply for blue garter or lucrezia and put in your CV that as a healer, you don't like DPSing but that you are still optimal.

Your problem is that you take the words "you are not being optimal" as a personal insult to your "playstyle" rather than objective feedback. Optimal doesn't always match with what you like guys (*I don't like DPSing so I only heal but I'm still optimal* -nope it doesn't work that way-).

But at this point, I feel that you just want to hear what you want to hear:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h__Thtao6vc