Not always when you've literally just finished the MSQ, you're still coming to grips with what DPS checks, procs and GCDs even are, want to enjoy content and are feeling unsure of yourself. It can be overwhelming and alienating to new players, especially those new to the concept of raiding who aren't used to time limits and don't even know what enrages are yet. My "premise" takes into account not everyone views content the way others do, and to that end won't necessarily respond well to a standardised, hyper-efficient approach, because not everyone is the same - a concept you seem to be struggling with. You're actually outing yourself as the kind of player you flat out refute to be by calling taking individual differences into consideration "coddling" and the weirdly defensive tone you're taking to the point you can't even acknowledge basic fact. And I'm not sure about the supposed efficacy of preventing hurt feelings if they're put off even getting into the duty, or if they're made to feel inadequate for failing to meet checks fresh out the gate instead of being allowed to try their hand at the content and improve.
No, I'm basing what I've said on what you've written and how it comes across, and apparently you cannot accept a contrary point of view. OP has already stated he found the information helpful anyway despite that, so why are you so up in arms about it?
Ah, of course the problem with PF lies with new raiders for not taking "objective, clear and concise" advice and "not taking things personally", and absolutely nothing to do with raiders themselves, who are of course never rude, hostile, condescending, off-putting or completely unaware of how they actually sound to other people. It's those gosh darned newbies and their obsession with beingtreated with basic patience, consideration and respectcoddled! It's not as if Savage raiders have a reputation for that sort of thing or anything, my, no.
Actually, OP has said himself none of them particularly care about gear and that they just want to do it for the experience and having fun together - as I pointed out is often the case. Of course it's a given that beating it would be nice, but your original post shrugged off basic considerations that are important to a lot of people, such as it is here, like the possibility he doesn't want anyone dropping out or that failure through keeping that in mind wouldn't actually be viewed as wasting his time, and that's what I've been saying all along. Fortunately OP is aware of what he wants and can take the relevant advice he's looking for, but I felt it to prudent to say in the event that might not be so. Is the fact some people really aren't that bothered about loot and clears over just being with friends such a foreign concept to you?