The toxicity starting to happen.

[kaynide]

Fun facts: I've *almost* never seen any of this on Japanese data center. People might complain behind closed doors etc, but there's a wonderful culture of keeping your mouth shut and just letting people play the !@% game.

Most of the conversation I've seen just went along the lines of "Healer> Sorry, I'm not comfortable with such large pulls" "Tank> OK". (or vice versa), or alternatively offers of explanation after a wipe.

I've seen and played both ways, but the only people I've ever had mouth off and openly complain were doing so in English, and oddly enough complaining while doing mentor roulette with a sprout... not explanation, just "omg you're so slow /leave"

Yeah nah. Party controls the pace, not the tank.

Not meaning to be argumentative at you by any means, but I've put up with crappy tanks/healers just to avoid the 30m wait in line for another dungeon as DPS. As a tank/healer, those pops are instant and I have absolutely just left parties to their fate for having crappy attitudes towards each other. I would never leave because of a player trying hard but failing...but bullying is where I draw the line.

In a recent roulette in Aurum Vale, I was pulling slow because a Japanese healer asked me to- The 2 DPS that were bullying the hell out of our her for a lot of close calls ultimately leading to an avoidable, but understandable wipe with [Mr. Just Got His Attack Markers This Patch]. Just told a healer "hey we're in the same world, let's just leave this, form party and re-queue". It was after 15 min into the dungeon, so we could just jump right into a new one. Sastasha never felt so good