Quote Originally Posted by kaynide View Post
Fun facts: I've *almost* never seen any of this on Japanese data center. People might complain behind closed doors etc, but there's a wonderful culture of keeping your mouth shut and just letting people play the !@% game.

Most of the conversation I've seen just went along the lines of "Healer> Sorry, I'm not comfortable with such large pulls" "Tank> OK". (or vice versa), or alternatively offers of explanation after a wipe.

I've seen and played both ways, but the only people I've ever had mouth off and openly complain were doing so in English, and oddly enough complaining while doing mentor roulette with a sprout... not explanation, just "omg you're so slow /leave"
The Japanese argument, really ?
Call me a masochist, but being ignorant to a situation for the sake of peace is no better than openly complaining. Imagine being on a public blacklist because no one wanted to say to your face that you need to be better.