First of all this feature farfetched from being seen that it endorses bigotry. It isn't shady and it doesn't look shady. People claim its shady because it fits their purpose. You practically need to be an olympic champion in mental gymanstics to claim that this feature endorses bigotry. However you still mention this...
Secondly using that very same logic: Since children also play the game, allowing them to see men in dresses is even more 10 times more questionable than a feature that might potientially be seen as endorsing bigotry. Yet I don't see noone claiming that in the gender lock threads.
That is factually incorrect. The OP doesn't say he wants this per character. He asks for an option to turn off glamours because it's breaking his immersion. You might find it immersive to see someone in toad/chocobo suit killing the ultima weapon, but a lot of people don't. Also that doesn't stop you from wearing these cloathes normally and running around in a town in a chocobo/toad suit. You just can't do it inside a dungeon/raid where you are fighting with your life against a powerful enemy.
I haven't seen anyone providing a legitime reason besides it takes dev time/resources that can be viewed as con. It's literally people saying: No it's bigot or No notice me (see the above gif post). And spending dev time and resources on removing gender locking is ok but this isn't?
It doesn't bother you, that's great. But it does bother other people for various reason. I especially hate colored metallic dyes. I can't complain about people using them (it's their right) but I also expect people not to complain when I ask a for feature that can optionally removing
It's a good feature and a lot of people also use it because it's too straining on the eyes. It's a nice option that people who want to use it, use it and people who don't want to use it don't use it. I don't see why this feature can't be like battle effects filter.
Why would it get them to hot water? People make issues about everything. Do you think is hard for people to start complaing that men wearing wedding dreses is distressing for children and cause trouble? How about a scene where someone looses an arm? Isn't that extreme violence. Can't people make an issue of the game having extreme violence?
I can understand people saying: I prefer to get X or Y first because I want it more than hiding glamour. It's valid request. But the arguments against this feature on this thread are either "You're a bigot" (some say it straight out, some are more diplomatic about it -like saying it could be seen as endorsing bigotry) or no "because it till hurt feelings or self expression". Both of them are literally reasons that don't stand up to logic and scrutiny.