When I tank I try to do good at my job and make everything easier for the party.
However if someone ever brings up I'm not doing enough DPS, when I tank. I report them. There is no built in way to really know how much DPS someone is doing. Unless someone really isn't pulling there weight, like really isn't. That stands out.
As for anything other then current savage content it shouldn't matter.
Sadly in FFXIV Gear > Skill
I MT ARR, HW,
As for SB I HATE WARRIOR. I Feel so weak vs my hubby PLD who just started tanking in SB.
Which is great I get to not main tank now but I only played tank to begin with for quick queues.
I only ever got called out on my DPS as a warrior once when turn 4 was new content.