For those who don't want parser. I can understand (from your point of view) that you are afraid getting harrased.
Let me ask you this, you go in a group you find out you got enrage because you are 20% dps lower than the second or even third dps. What is your view on this? Keep going tillit's dead even tho you know it's a dead end? Then my second question is, you end up finding out the dps in your group is 20% lower than you on dps and you get enrage, what would you do? Then the last one is, if a group has amazing dps and can cover for yours, do you feel its okay for them to do it for you, them pulling the gameplay by 85% or more? Or is it unfair for them? Now, imagine they played at your level, would that be fun for you? Or selfish behalf of the 7 others?