"You pull, you tank" is a bad mentality

[loosie]

But you're expected to paint those additional three houses while you are handling the three you already have. You don't get to paint the three houses NEXT. It's RIGHT NOW.

Don't miss this crucial detail.

You do realize that if you do try your best to tank extra mobs, you're not doing anything wrong, right? If you actually die, then the only issue is player skill, not attitude. That's perfectly fine, it's not reportable and I'm going to be completely supportive of you.
If you decide to stop tanking, that's a problem. Now it's no longer a question of whether or not you can handle it, it's you choosing to not play out of pure malice.

Folks behave like entitled, spoiled children trying to force others to play 'their way' and this is the result. SE gives players a choice and we choose not to engage with these babies.

And willfully ignoring mobs that are killing your party just because you didn't pull them yourself isn't acting like an entitled, spoiled child trying to force others to play 'their way'?