Quote Originally Posted by Kolaina View Post
Tank runs in. Healer doesn’t follow. Tank and potentially dps who followed die. Healer states was waiting for cs. Knowing full well the result, and acknowledging they intentionally stayed out of fight. Go ahead, take that risk goji. Its your account, not mine. But I will go in and help my team. THAT is what I signed up for
It's not a risk. In terms of how "against the ToS" that is, it's basically like saying "sorry, got a phone call" after the tank and DPS die. If the intent of your brief non-participation isn't to grief your team then you're fine.

If helping the tank make the new player feel uncomfortable is what you signed up for, then do your thing. Don't perpetuate the self-serving lie that deciding to wait for the new player is against the ToS, though, because it's not.