I mean, it's fact: there is a right way and a wrong way to play your class in FFXIV. Me asking someone to press glare and stop spamming cure 2 on me at 90% HP is not me asking for much. I'm not going to apologize for expecting more, no matter the form of content. Also, you've got it twisted backwards a little - SE wasn't directly responding to the sane among us who want basic competence. They were directly responding to the people who want the 'Pure Healer' GARBAGE half AFK playstyle to be justified. Look at the sheer amount of times Yoshi has said 'Healer DPS doesn't matter', even if that's clearly a massive lie.
Cursed edit: I fully expect SE to do some monkey's paw stuff and basically roll-back the healer skill ceiling to HW and give us beloved abilities back again next expansion. The caveat? 'This action cannot be used in instances.' Cower before the honestly kind of plausible future of LIMITED HEALER DPS.