Quote Originally Posted by Awha View Post
I apologize for the confusion, I know I did articulate myself clearly. Yes this was a standard expert roulette with three people grouped together (healer + two dps). Thank for taking the time to explain the mindset to you, while it does seem like my view is in the minatory I do hold that no player inherently is above at the very least trying to fit within the collectives will in this case the group. While I do not recall who mentioned I do fall in lines with the mindset of majority rules in group situations. Granted, my view is slightly skewed since I do not see being removed from a party as a personal attack, more or a miss alignment of ideals. Which is fine, just means if I was removed from the group they were not the right group for me.

Though I do have more free time then the average person so maybe that is a factor. Either way I do sort of see why opinions differ greatly on such a topic, and while I do not agree with the double standard some have I can see where they are coming from since at the end of the day each player has their own goals and views of what is enjoy or efficient. In retrospect maybe if I found myself in a similar situation in the future I will recall back to this thread and not be hasty since some have brought up good points. Such as the intent behind the encouragement matters. Is it really encouragement if the group removes the player after the refuse to follow a standard of play set by the group.

Once again I apologize sometimes simple concepts have to be explained to me from different point of views since for me I see no difference in value between roles themselves yet those that I play with clearly do so I tend to get easily confused.



If I may ask what do you mean by this? Since I would fall in lines with option two, yet I am not certain as to what yo mean by the type of people.
what she is implying is that option 1 is the best option for the health of the game and community as a whole. You are less likely to have players extremely upset, or feel they are being punished. And more people will feel comfortable using the duty finder tool.

although you may not see it that way, most people view getting kicked as fairly negative, and almost always you end up wasting a lot of time.

if most players thought that being kicked was a normal expected occurence within the duty finder, they would probably not use the duty finder, or seek to mitigate the potential to be kicked via premades. If less people use the df, it will be a less effective means of completing content.