Quote Originally Posted by JohnSeal View Post
Criticise is just toxic
Okay, I am honestly not trying to belittle you here, but is English your first language? I know first hand that some things get jumbled in translation and I worry that this might be one of those things.

I just need to point out that criticism is absolutely not necessarily toxic or even impolite.

If you think it is, then I feel like that explains some of the misconceptions you have on this particular subject. In that case you are mistaken. Criticism is inherently neutral, neither good nor bad. It can become either based on how the person presents it to you. And, as an aside, criticism can still be constructive, even when presented in a toxic manner.