Quote Originally Posted by Zsolen View Post
When I was 18, I would not have listened to them. I was certainly old enough to understand what was going on. She knew he needed to be blocked. You don't make decisions, based on social status.

FC leader should have kicked whoever was needed to be kicked, rather than leave. Barring that the 18 year old should have left the FC. You shouldn't want to be in a FC that doesn't have your back. We all had 'friends' that weren't really friends. You drop them like a bad habit, no matter how much time you spent together.
But were you groomed by a serial abuser and his friends?

Also important to point out that 18 year olds are children and the man in question was a fully grown adult.

You might think you'd have fared better, but hindsight is 20/20 and no one was ever as sensible and level headed as they like to think they were as a child.

He's a predator, children are very vulnerable to it, ESPECIALLY those who have been abused in the past.