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    Zsolen's Avatar
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    Zanelle Solainteau
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    When I was 18, I would not have listened to them. I was certainly old enough to understand what was going on. She knew he needed to be blocked. You don't make decisions, based on social status.

    FC leader should have kicked whoever was needed to be kicked, rather than leave. Barring that the 18 year old should have left the FC. You shouldn't want to be in a FC that doesn't have your back. We all had 'friends' that weren't really friends. You drop them like a bad habit, no matter how much time you spent together.
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    Cassandra Solidor
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    Dragoon Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Zsolen View Post
    When I was 18, I would not have listened to them. I was certainly old enough to understand what was going on. She knew he needed to be blocked. You don't make decisions, based on social status.

    FC leader should have kicked whoever was needed to be kicked, rather than leave. Barring that the 18 year old should have left the FC. You shouldn't want to be in a FC that doesn't have your back. We all had 'friends' that weren't really friends. You drop them like a bad habit, no matter how much time you spent together.
    Operative word being "I". They aren't you nor do they have the same confidence, experience or thought process you do. I, too, wouldn't go along with it, however that is far easier said then done. Someone with a poor upbringing, bad past experiences, depression and all sorts of other possibilities will not be equally equipped to handle the same scenario. You have to view this from their perspective, with their personality, not your own.
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    Last edited by Bourne_Endeavor; 06-30-2018 at 06:15 AM.