
Originally Posted by
Oscura
Wow. Is it really so wrong that someone wants to play with people of similar skill level? That's why people don't want parsers? So they can deny others the ability to play with like-minded people if it means they can be carried or coddled to? That's why I've always found the argument so self-fulfilling. It's notabout other people, it's just about the person themselves. It's like "think of the children," but replace children with "players who can't/won't/don't play at a savage level." It's preachy nonsense when people are ultimately only thinking about themselves.
There is nothing wrong with saying certain people aren't good enough to play with. Even outside of gaming, it is constantly proven that participating in a group of like-minded individuals or individuals with common goals or skill-sets will benefit you in the long run. Whether it be healthy coordination or encouraging you to improve. Sometimes teaming up with people who are as skilled as you are allows you to overcome hurdles when you want to improve yourself, as having multiple viewpoints or seeing another person's experience always helps. It certainly makes things more interesting for me when I have people who are of a similar skill with me, because I'm motivated to push myself further to go beyond what the group already has.
I'm actually getting tired of this rhetoric that people should be able to play how they want, when they want, and do however much DPS they please, but when someone who actually has a modicum of skill says, "I don't want to play with people worse than me," they're suddenly painted in a negative light. It's hypocritical, pure and simple. To imply that you (I say this generally, not you specifically) don't want parsers because you (again, general) don't want others excluding you for a different mindset, thus playing as they please, is just...too much.
Using someone's desire to play with others of a similar level of skill as a reason for why parsing is bad just sounds like you're shaming them for playing as they want. I'm getting tired of people supporting that attitude in the slightest.