Why are low standards for dps acceptable?

[FoxyAreku]

When the tank screws up and a DPS dies from it the party kicks the DPS.

Literally never seen or heard of this happening so I'm not sure where you're getting that.

Indeed, but it's still acceptable most of the time anyway. I think most players just don't care, including me, even if for different reasons. I don't even remember the last time someone was called out for bad play in DF.

Also, just being able to maintain aggro as a tank and keep the tank alive as a healer is not exactly high standards IMO.

You must be very lucky, as it happens every other run for me. People so bad that we literally have to say something or kick them...some people astound me.

And while your last statement is true, my point still stands (I'd also be pretty mad if the healer was only healing the tank...)