So, appearantly I got added to a 'list'

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As I have said, I wouldn't allow myself into an actionable situation to defy anyone's self-entitled rules. I'm just calling out the act of doing it in itself. It's selfish to lock out other participants just because they don't want to fairly lot against them. It's the attitude of a dictator. I might be going too far with that statement, but people that do this elicit nearly the same level of disgust in me as the idea of a dictator. Might be my ideals given where I grew up, who knows.

I firmly believe this kind of behavior is morally disgusting.

It's selfish, sure. Being selfish isn't a bad thing all the time though. I know a couple of people that are too kind and share too much to the point of their own detriment. And what do you tell someone like that? "You need to focus on yourself and what you want, and surround yourself with people who are supportive of your goals." That is the nature of these parties. That being said, what is more selfish? To think a total stranger should be worrying about what you want, or that they are more worried about what they want?

TL;DR: Hypocrisy.

EDIT: Feel free to refer to this in the future if you ever need an example of how to get your point across without berating people (something a lot of people see as disgusting behavior).