I have a question. Is it really necessary to do something that is prohibited by the terms of use? You agree to the terms of use when you play the game, so if you want to use mods, you shouldn't agree to them in the first place.

People who use mods that are far removed from FFXIV characters or engage in sexual acts in-game don't need to do that in FFXIV, right?
Why not just do it in SIMS or VR chat?

If you say, "My identity is..." the answer is, "Then express it somewhere else. This is not the place to express your identity."