Young players are not going to play FF14

[Bonoki]

From what I gather since we are not on Balmung our world experiences are just much different than theirs when it comes to ERP lol.

I mean this in an extremely polite way as much as I can. But your world experiences is different just for playing a male character. This is factored in way before server, which also plays a point. It's still not really difficult to open up PF or Fellowship Finder or heck, community finder and see 18+ listings all over the place though.