I'm bored when I heal because I need more complex DPS rotations

[AmiableApkallu]

Sure, it can happen, I'll grant you that, but it's not exactly prevalent, is it? In my 10 years of playing on multiple DCs, I've only seen one passive-aggressive callout, and it was someone saying "not gg with you" after someone said "gg" at the end of a dungeon. I'm not sure why the threat of being bullied for not using your kit properly has to be a major consideration when it's not very prevalent at all.

I'm into my cups this evening, so I'll share another anecdote: I was once the got-every-job-to-90-and-beat-EW healer in a Praetorium run (the re-worked for four people version) that caused a wipe on the final fight because I couldn't keep myself alive. Consider for a moment how tragically inattentive and inept you have to be to let that happen. Seriously. Let it sink in.

How much flak did I catch for that? How much flak did I catch for not fulfilling my primary responsibility? None.

[Rein_eon_Osborne]

I'm into my cups this evening, so I'll share another anecdote: I was once the got-every-job-to-90-and-beat-EW healer in a Praetorium run (the re-worked for four people version) that caused a wipe on the final fight because I couldn't keep myself alive. Consider for a moment how tragically inattentive and inept you have to be to let that happen. Seriously. Let it sink in.

How much flak did I catch for that? How much flak did I catch for not fulfilling my primary responsibility? None.

Adding my own anecdote: back in ShB, I leveled WHM up to 71 not knowing wth I'm doing. Freecure? Yeah, I used those. I caused a couple of wipes sometimes. Nobody gives a $h!t. People were like "It's okay let's give it another try." The only time I started to change for better was at 71 where I had that disastrous Holminster where my inexperienced a$$ couldn't handle the pull with Freecures. I did dps when I could; it's when I had to heal, everything started to fall apart as I panicked.

Did I catch any flaks? None, at all.

Oh oh and also~.. I'm not entirely your 'angelic, kind'-healer too. I had a few 'petty outbursts' at rare times when my tank refuses to wall pull in a friggin' dungeons. What did I do? I purposely stopped being that competent Glare Mage and proceed on to use Cure I (and its equivalent on other healer) only. Any flaks? Again, none.