Differentiating healer identities

[Renathras]

Sadly, my tolerance for passive aggressive elitism is very low. Stop parading the fallacy that the rest of us aren’t real healers and I won’t feel obligated to act… “that.” You’re perfectly CAPABLE of being humble, you just choose not to.

So is mine. That's why I've stopped giving you the time of day. You can't contain yourself even when I'm trying to have a respectful and neutral conversation with you - to the point you're stalking me on other threads replying when I made no comments directed at you. I've also yet to see you humble; you haven't admitted to a single mistake, even when caught in them. Best case scenario when you're caught is you stop posting in that thread for a while instead of admitting it.

Stop parading the fallacy that the rest of us aren’t real healers and I won’t feel obligated to act…

Show me one time I've said you "aren't real healers".

One quote where I said you aren't real healers.

I'll wait.

You constantly make up things I didn't say and accuse me of saying them. Apologies, but there's only so many times I can say to you "I didn't say that, I said THIS. Can you show me where I said that?" You: "..." Me: makes another post You: "You said it again!" Me: "Once again, no I didn't, I said THIS. Can you show me where I said that?" You: "..." ; repeat ad nausea.

There's a reason you get the same 7 people upvoting you ever time. The ones that actually engage are just as bad about it as you are, just not as blatant.

I keep trying to be the "bigger man" and have offered you SEVERAL olive branches, which you either brush away to attack me or simply outright ignore I even offered, and you're constantly butting in to try to start fights with me in random other theads - where you or one of your followers will then attack me for derailing threads when I'm the one that keeps trying to steer the thread back on topic.

I've tried ignoring you, I've tried only engaging you in threads where you're being respectful, and I even have outright asked you - on at least two occasions - what I can do different other than BOW TO YOUR POSITION UNCONDITIONALLY so we can have peaceful discourse, and you simply give no answer or attack me more.

There's no dealing with you, to the point I've considered just reporting your posts and moving on, but I don't want to be a dick about it. I'd rather you just stop being antagonistic and passive aggressive so we could actually have decent discussions - which you're fully capable of, when you don't have a bee in your britches.

tl;dr - when you get good at one of these jobs you can literally switch to any of the other 3 because they don't play that much different from one another ergo the roll is easy.

This I agree with, but so are all the others.

Played all the Tanks, feel the same way about them.

Played all the Range, the only real difference is how RNG they are.

Two out of the three Casters are about as easy as each other (and each even has a forced gap closer).

Most of the Melee follow a pretty standard paradigm that has one of two forks, the "rotation on rails" like DRK or the "low maintenance then burst" of NIN/MNK.

You could argue every Role in the game is easy and every Job in the game is braindead, I suppose.

Treated better?

Doing dps as a healer is the most thankless job in the game. You keep the party alive, contribute to raid damage and some sprout goes onto the forum to write a wall of text about filthy no-heal dps healers because they dipped below 50% when there was no raidwide for another 50 seconds and oGCD heals don't have cast bars they can see. Meanwhile the Sylphie gets showered in comms because everyone felt "so safe" while drowning in overheal.

I've seen FAR more forum posts about "no damage Healers" than "no heal Healers". And by "treated better", I mean "have easier party slots and better ques", but whatever.