Is it just me or are some Healers refusing to Heal Paladins?

[Azuri]

Groan. I don't know why some people think every random duty finder has to be "teachable moments" for less skilled players. You are punished too with their deaths. If it bothers you so much having to deal with random players who get hit by avoidable mechanics and needing to heal them, just play something else.

I also noticed in general if you make people uncomfortable they instinctively back off, start kiting and stop dps when they feel in danger. The run goes even slower. Maybe you enjoy spending your time berating your random duty finders and thinking you are "teaching them" - I just find this mindset incredibly tiring and unnecessary.

There is helpful advice, and then there is just being obnoxious.

Anyway, I far prefer being a "no one dies on my watch" healer than "I chose not to heal you as you got hit by something that was avoidable."

There is a fundamental difference in our mindset. You show up to content to keep healthbars full. I show up to heal as efficiently as possible and will not adjust for bad play. Simple.