Quote Originally Posted by Crorinu View Post
What in the name of Hydaelyn are all these toxic replies? Seriously???
No. All of y'all got bad takes that make the game less fun for new players.
When you, a new player, come into a dungeon and tell people 'Hey, it's my first time in here.' that's where the other players need to accommodate YOU. DO NOT 'pull more' just because a healer is bored. Healer bored? They have DPS abilities, they can use those. DO NOT leave your comfort zone until you're ready. I have a zero tolerance policy for people who pull when I'm tanking. If you want to pull the mobs, be the tank. Plain and simple. I've literally stood back and watched a MCH die after they pulled a ton of stuff. I didn't use AoE while killing what went on the healer because of fairy aggro. Healer dismissed their fairy. The other DPS also stood back. We all watched this guy run around me in a panic until he died. Then I turned my Grit back on, picked up the trash, and went about my tanky business. Shocker, he didn't pull for me again.
I mained a healer last expansion when I first started playing, and I also main a healer in WoW. The mentality XIV healers seem to have is toxic. I encourage you to call it out. When a dps or healer decide to pull, that's when they need to learn to tank. We all have roles for a reason. When I first started playing I got yelled at a LOT by DPS because I wasn't DPSing as a WHM. Luckily my friend tanked every dungeon for me and is a mentor, so he told them to shut up and let me figure it out at my own pace. Now I DPS and heal just fine because I was allowed to go at my own pace.
I'd gladly heal the rest of your dungeons if needed, just so you can have an enjoyable experience and learn at your own pace.

Happy travels!
The funny thing is, some of these people are literally like 'tank do your job' while they insist on interfering with the tanks job.. a job that includes setting the pace, tank sets the pace, not the DPS, not the healer, the tank. Their job is to pull and to decide how much to pull, thus setting the pace of the dungeon.

If you want it faster as a healer.. communicate, tell the tank you're more than comfortable with bigger pulls.. good chance is that 9 out of 10 tanks will step it up to accommodate you.. shocking right? Perhaps inquire on whether the tank in question may not be comfortable with a certain dungeon yet and that such may be why they may not be pulling as fast as you think they should. Anything more constructive than 'i no like your pace so now i pull for you, adjust' or even worse, rescue griefing. It's that kind of behavior that ultimately causes the tank to either say or do a 'you pull it, you tank it' that some of you find oh so horrible.