Damn, if only the chat said this message the first time you que into an instance. Maybe people should expect folks on their first time in an instance to want watch all the cutscenes, you know, like they did their first time.

Really the only Solution is to give folks who want to skip all cutscenes a "impatient que" with all cutscenes disabled, or atleast a que that won't pair you with anyone seeing the content for their first time.