It's an mmo. Song as old as time... Play with your friends and FC members. I don't do prog or new content with randoms unless I'm coming to help. Never get yelled at or tutted over any kind of parse. You control your experience, an if you want to curate your play you have been given an abundance of resources to do that.

You're tired of hard carrying sprouts? Don't que randoms or use PF. Tired of sweaty pugs losing it over a slight mistake? Don't que randoms or use PF.

Or, you might find it's not really as wide spread as you'd think. A lot of people join farm parties with only one clear, get asked why they keep dying to the same mechanic, and cry toxicity. Though, I do find most "farm" listing are bait, but that's just me and my own confirmation bias.