PLDs: You have Clemency for a reason.

[Kabooa]

You're correct I don't. Just as they can't control the way i utilize my tools. But again, I'd much rather teach than carry. Of course I can get through the duty spamming clemency the whole time. But it's not something i'm willing to do when the healer can just use their tools appropriately. OP even acknowledged themselves that they weren't using their toolkit well.

OP also detailed the behavior of a -very bad tank-.

That is why I qualify what I say with "In the end, it doesn't matter whose fault it is". Stuff happens. Stuff hits the fan. The advice being offered is basic generic "this usually works". It takes longer to recover and 'do it right' than it does to just bite the bullet and use Clemency.

Again - Nothing prevents you from helping them -and- preventing the wipe. The two are not exclusive.