PLDs: You have Clemency for a reason.

[Kabooa]

Because the healer was incompetent. The healer does not become better if every paladin they get spams clemency. I'd much rather wipe and talk to them about what they're doing wrong than carry them through the whole instance.

You have no control over someone else's progress, even if you attempt to aid them.

However, aiding them is not exclusive from preventing a wipe, so that's an odd point to bring up.