Quote Originally Posted by Nims View Post
My bad I wasn't clear on that point, it's normal to speak up in threads but I was talking about the taking offense part and it hitting close to home. Like I stated I've seen the reference to pedos and lalas before I may joke about it with them in a way to make them see they're crazy. Or just not argue at all, I definitely wouldn't tell them I'm offended. |



I hate when people do this, there's a societal normal and then there's like sub culture/small groups normal and even smaller. In a large group (I guess societal?), like the gaming community dudes that will only play females chars aren't seen as normal, hence why you're having this "problem". Also when most males state their reason and when it's so bad that games are even catering to it (Like Blade and Soul, that one Ariagames mmo where all the chicks had massive boobs and it was female only) because it makes them that much more money, it's safe to say it's not a blanket statement but just what it is. At this point dudes that only play female chars but not for sexual reasons (which I'm not going to lie I'm not buying that, but I don't know everyone) are outliers, the exceptions...not the rule.
To be fair... I'm not the best with words on forums so I'm sure my points could've been made better but since it's me.. they weren't. And I don't follow the societal normals on everything.. cause to be honest... gamers aren't normal by those standards. That includes you. You by that standard aren't any better then the people you're calling out. We're all nerds geeks and whatever else simply by being on this site playing a game named Final Fantasy. Can we get nerdier? But that's why I said my normal isn't yours and you may hate that.. but it's the truth. I rarely run into these pervs. I run into more judgemental pricks then anything else. So yeah.. I guess in that logic we're the same as everytime I see people being overly judgely I instantly scoff. I met too many people like that to not react.