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[Selova]

I love it when you take a single sentence from an entire text to twist it and make fun of it. I don't know, it's normal here? it's some kind of like farming or something?



I never said that in the topic. Please read it and find out before you drop things like that.

Jesus Christ man.

The part you just quoted wasn't even directed at you genius, I was responding to another poster in the thread. We get it dude, trying to comprehend people playing scantily clad characters in a fantasy video game is clearly too much for your masculinity to handle. You literally both admitted it makes you uncomfortable and referred to them as "mediocre ecchi anime characters". Given the fact that you are unable to have a discussion with someone that argues you're own point against you and instead you resort to ad hominem with stellar responses like this: "But stop bothering adults and go to the Crunchyroll forum, which surely there can give you all the content you need on a subject that has never been touched before." makes this all obvious that this is nothing more than a troll thread, one that I'm done responding to. Good luck out there kid.

[Nims]

You know what I mean tho. Yeah Lalas aren't in every game

Then your example falls flat, which is my point. We're talking about dudes that will only play female chars, besides Lalas are small cutesy characters that look like potatoes. There's no sexual appeal involved here and it's harder to prove if there is (not saying that's ok that's legit just as weird). A lot of people play lala (male and female) simply because they're cute and or ridiculous. Males that will only play female chars play them because of sex appeal. We're not the same.

But my point was that blanket judgement...

But it wasn't as most males will literally say themselves that they play because "I don't want to stare at a dude's butt all day" "I like looking at women" "Sex sells" and "I'm not attracted to men". Are there dudes that don't play female chars for these reasons? Yeah and I already mentioned them and stated those aren't the dudes we're talking about because those type of dudes aren't that fixated on the female form and there's usually a legit reason why they're playing female the times they do. (Please keep in mind that I'm talking about dudes that will only (or 95% of the time) play female characters)

But it hits close to home

Idk man the only time people take offense to this type of stuff is when it's partially true lmao. I've heard the "lala people are pedos irl" stuff before and I pay it no mind because I know it's simply not true. It doesn't "hit close to home" to me because there's no home for it to hit.

Also the "It's more appealing" is the same as the other excuses the males give the "I don't want to stare at male butt" it's just put more eloquently.

[monk-dps]

Then your example falls flat, which is my point. We're talking about dudes that will only play female chars, besides Lalas are small cutesy characters that look like potatoes. There's no sexual appeal involved here and it's harder to prove if there is (not saying that's ok that's legit just as weird). A lot of people play lala (male and female) simply because they're cute and or ridiculous. Males that will only play female chars play them because of sex appeal. We're not the same.



But it wasn't as most males will literally say themselves that they play because "I don't want to stare at a dude's butt all day" "I like looking at women" "Sex sells" and "I'm not attracted to men". Are there dudes that don't play female chars for these reasons? Yeah and I already mentioned them and stated those aren't the dudes we're talking about because those type of dudes aren't that fixated on the female form and there's usually a legit reason why they're playing female the times they do. (Please keep in mind that I'm talking about dudes that will only (or 95% of the time) play female characters)



Idk man the only time people take offense to this type of stuff is when it's partially true lmao. I've heard the "lala people are pedos irl" stuff before and I pay it no mind because I know it's simply not true. It doesn't "hit close to home" to me because there's no home for it to hit.

Also the "It's more appealing" is the same as the other excuses the males give the "I don't want to stare at male butt" it's just put more eloquently.

So let me ask you this.. why do you care what these dudes are doing? Does it matter what their -excuses- are really? This is why we can't have nice things.. everyone is too busy worried about random person who doesn't matter 1974.32 instead of just enjoying the video game.

Edit.. I'm not trying to be toxic.. but instead of trying to explain or defend anything. I just want to know why does it matter?

[Nims]

So let me ask you this.. why do you care what these dudes are doing?

I guess that would depend on how you define "care".

If you're implying that, this is all I think about or spend a good chunk of my time talking about...I don't. I sorta forgot about you guys until this thread came up, which again it's normal for someone to respond to threads....

If you're implying "care" as in why do I have an opinion on them, then that's weird. Are you saying I shouldn't have opinions because you don't like them? Either way I have these opinions on your type because every one that I have met, has been down right creepy and or objectified women while trying to hide behind the "It's a fantasy game bro".

Overall it's safe to say that normal guys with normal non sexual intent don't have these problems, they aren't offended and they don't care because well...they're normal.

Protip: If you play female chars because you're that sexually driven just own it. I've seen dudes say their reason is because they like "tiddies", there's nothing that can really be argued there, is it creepy? Yep but there's nothing to argue. The dudes that do what you do "males are boring" yadda yadda, it doesn't make sense, there's too many holes, it's just BS and people can argue it. Just own what you are and what you do and if that's playing female chars because you have to look at the female form so be it.

[Driavna]

So let me ask you this.. why do you care what these dudes are doing? Does it matter what their -excuses- are really? This is why we can't have nice things.. everyone is too busy worried about random person who doesn't matter 1974.32 instead of just enjoying the video game.

Edit.. I'm not trying to be toxic.. but instead of trying to explain or defend anything. I just want to know why does it matter?

Usually, people that care about this do it for two reasons:

- Want to feel superior.

- Are desperate to find a partner in a video game and all the dudes using female character make their goal harder.

[Omymy]

The part you just quoted wasn't even directed at you genius, I was responding to another poster in the thread.

It is in the topic I have created and makes indirect reference to what I put in it. With which it has to do with me, "genius".

trying to comprehend people playing scantily clad characters in a fantasy video game is clearly too much for your masculinity to handle

Now you are talking about my masculinity with zero arguments when i said i had female characters too.



I dont know man, this must be a hidden camera prank or something.

You literally both admitted it makes you uncomfortable

Where?, i didnt say that, lol.

Yeah, this lamentable spectacle you're putting on doesn't do you any good.

Have a nice trip.

[Nims]

I still speak up cause it's normal to reply to threads like you said.

My bad I wasn't clear on that point, it's normal to speak up in threads but I was talking about the taking offense part and it hitting close to home. Like I stated I've seen the reference to pedos and lalas before I may joke about it with them in a way to make them see they're crazy. Or just not argue at all, I definitely wouldn't tell them I'm offended. |

And your normal isn't my normal

I hate when people do this, there's a societal normal and then there's like sub culture/small groups normal and even smaller. In a large group (I guess societal?), like the gaming community dudes that will only play females chars aren't seen as normal, hence why you're having this "problem". Also when most males state their reason and when it's so bad that games are even catering to it (Like Blade and Soul, that one Ariagames mmo where all the chicks had massive boobs and it was female only) because it makes them that much more money, it's safe to say it's not a blanket statement but just what it is. At this point dudes that only play female chars but not for sexual reasons (which I'm not going to lie I'm not buying that, but I don't know everyone) are outliers, the exceptions...not the rule.

You literally both admitted

I never admitted anything makes me uncomfortable, I said it's weird, you can think something is weird without being uncomfortable. The only uncomfortable part about dudes like you guys are the ones that down right and openly say things that objectify women but as a woman I think I'm allowed to feel uncomfortable around that....no?

[Driavna]

Nims It's hilarious how your logic only applies to certain group! Yet, it's even more amusing how you feelt the need to clarify why you play as a Lala.

[monk-dps]

My bad I wasn't clear on that point, it's normal to speak up in threads but I was talking about the taking offense part and it hitting close to home. Like I stated I've seen the reference to pedos and lalas before I may joke about it with them in a way to make them see they're crazy. Or just not argue at all, I definitely wouldn't tell them I'm offended. |



I hate when people do this, there's a societal normal and then there's like sub culture/small groups normal and even smaller. In a large group (I guess societal?), like the gaming community dudes that will only play females chars aren't seen as normal, hence why you're having this "problem". Also when most males state their reason and when it's so bad that games are even catering to it (Like Blade and Soul, that one Ariagames mmo where all the chicks had massive boobs and it was female only) because it makes them that much more money, it's safe to say it's not a blanket statement but just what it is. At this point dudes that only play female chars but not for sexual reasons (which I'm not going to lie I'm not buying that, but I don't know everyone) are outliers, the exceptions...not the rule.

To be fair... I'm not the best with words on forums so I'm sure my points could've been made better but since it's me.. they weren't. And I don't follow the societal normals on everything.. cause to be honest... gamers aren't normal by those standards. That includes you. You by that standard aren't any better then the people you're calling out. We're all nerds geeks and whatever else simply by being on this site playing a game named Final Fantasy. Can we get nerdier? But that's why I said my normal isn't yours and you may hate that.. but it's the truth. I rarely run into these pervs. I run into more judgemental pricks then anything else. So yeah.. I guess in that logic we're the same as everytime I see people being overly judgely I instantly scoff. I met too many people like that to not react.

[Nims]

Nims It's hilarious how your logic only applies to certain group, yet it's even more hilarious how you feel the need to clarifying why you play as a Lala

I don't think I ever stated why I personally play as lala (also this is my alt, my main is an au ra ) Also my logic only applies to certain groups of people? No I think I apply logic to all groups of people. If most people that played lala were saying disgusting things about children and that they like to play Lala because they remind them of children I'd feel the same way with them.

gamers aren't normal by those standards. That includes you. You by that standard aren't any better then the people you're calling out......But that's why I said my normal isn't yours and you may hate that.. but it's the truth.

Yikes it's almost like I specifically, mentioned "the gaming community" in my previous posts. Also the opinion that society has on gamers and gaming culture is a different beast than dudes that only play female chars for sexual reasons, again we're not the same.

The part that I hate is when people go "There's no real normal so haha!" when there is usually a norm in every group of people.

I rarely run into these pervs.

...Because you're a male. If you want I can honestly add you to discord and show you the 3 nude requests I got in the last 24 hours by males that only play female characters for sexual reasons.... Straight males aren't going to act like pervs to another straight male lol.