If you thought the healer DPS debate would change with the change...

[AmeliaVerves]

Define rude, because plenty of people think being told to DPS in and of itself is considered rude; [...]

Asking a healer to dps once is fine, but repetedly pushing a person to do so is rude imo. If the healer reacts and says something, fine, if he chooses to ignore you, you can either kick him or just shrug and move on with the dungeon.

For clarification I'm talking about casual content here, dungeons, NM trials, NM raids, 24-man raids and to some extent even EX trials.
I just stopped bothering about other healers dps tbh. They throw out a ton? Cool! We getting quick clears. They don't? Guess I have more time dpsing while they're keeping the party alive.
Either way all that counts for me is getting through the content at hand.
(obv that doesn't apply for my static, but even when im doing savage in PF I really don't care that much anymore. I might rant about it on voice with my friends, but that's all.)

Where does this demand come from? I never saw this voiced in game, even on runs with zero damage healers. No matter if dungeons or savage pugs.

The only demand I know of comes from meta groups, but I am pretty sure most people in this thread are not doing any speed kills whatsoever. So that is irrelevant.

^ Literally this!