Change to the ban system.

[Hope_For_Change]

Then maybe you shouldn't be sending tells with bannable content in them. Case closed. You want to swear and talk s**t? Leave it on discord, and you won't be sending mis-tells.

And if you don't know the person you're sending the "bannable" stuff to well enough to get their discord info, then you shouldn't be sending them foul/rude/'jokey' tells anyway.

It's not foul,rude, or jokey tells. It's more of an intimate convo. Believe it or not I'm some what of a Roll player but when toxic people come alone it breaks my immersion. So no, using discord is 100% an immersion breaking deal.

[Hope_For_Change]

Didn't they specifically *not* implement mass bans over the squadron limit break because people would have tried it out of curiosity?

Nope. My alt got ban for 2 days as a first offence while my main only got a warning because I wanted to show some friends and used it on a striking dummy and a dungeon boss mob. On my alt when I first found out about it, I was doing raids and tried it on the raid boss and thus I was ban for that I guess.

[Gurney]

It's not foul,rude, or jokey tells. It's more of an intimate convo. Believe it or not I'm some what of a Roll player but when toxic people come alone it breaks my immersion. So no, using discord is 100% an immersion breaking deal.

BINGO!!! So the person is considered toxic if they break you RP immersion. It has taken 12 pages on this topic for this to come up.

[Vahlnir]

I'm trying to change and it's not easy at all. But what I would like is to have a way to not lose my account for ever if I end up breaking a rule by mistake.

It may be best to step away from the game then until you can get a handle on things. If you're trying? Great! However, that does not give you a free pass. Once you've shown you have improved there's nothing wrong with making an appeal to SE customer service. But there needs to be evidence of this. Actions speak louder than words. You got yourself into this mess, you will have to dig yourself back out.

[aesteval]

Ah, then I guess I'm just doomed. I'll just give up on everything then. Thank you all for giving me the eyes to see that not a single person cares. Have a wonderful life. Lesson learn for me. Never bother to try and speak out. Always be pushed down and stepped on and laughed at. Got it.

It's difficult to show caring towards someone who seems excessively inclined to play the victim card and who also seems inclined to push the idea that they're being persecuted, while the only person they are a victim of is themself. If you don't want to be banned, then follow the rules. You are not the only person who experiences mental illness or anger and impulse control problems. And yet somehow, friends and family of my own who are affected, including individuals actually with Tourette's Syndrome, haven't even had a single infraction. You are not a victim of or persecuted by the community, you are being held to the same standards as everybody else.

[Hope_For_Change]

BINGO!!! So the person is considered toxic if they break you RP immersion. It has taken 12 pages on this topic for this to come up.

What? I've never said that. They're only breaking it when they begin to talk badly to the others or myself in the party for not doing the fight perfect like they expect it to be done. For example If you're not perfectly on a way marker or perfectly beside someone they flip their lid on someone and begin going off on them, telling them how bad at the game they are..ect. Love how you twist my words and spin it in what ever direction fits YOUR narrative.

[Hope_For_Change]

It may be best to step away from the game then until you can get a handle on things. If you're trying? Great! However, that does not give you a free pass. Once you've shown you have improved there's nothing wrong with making an appeal to SE customer service. But there needs to be evidence of this. Actions speak louder than words. You got yourself into this mess, you will have to dig yourself back out.

How do you write an appeal? And what do you mean by that? Can I have my past bans justified by making an appeal? I've not once been told I can summit an appeal.

[Vahlnir]

How do you write an appeal? And what do you mean by that? Can I have my past bans justified by making an appeal? I've not once been told I can summit an appeal.

It has been brought up at least twice in this thread apart from me. How you do it I have no clue, but I know it can be done. Never had to, so...

From what I can understand you contact CS or a GM. Not a written one though. As things currently stand however it is best to not even bother. Months down the road, probably. But not now.

[HyoMinPark]

Ah, then I guess I'm just doomed. I'll just give up on everything then. Thank you all for giving me the eyes to see that not a single person cares. Have a wonderful life. Lesson learn for me. Never bother to try and speak out. Always be pushed down and stepped on and laughed at. Got it.

Excuse you.

People care. What they don’t care for, however, are those who try to use their disabilities—be them physical or mental—as a reason to defend or excuse their actions.

You did enough to put your main account on its last leg, strike-wise; and you were more than capable of controlling yourself from lashing out on more than one occasion. At the very least, you were capable of learning from your previous mistakes, and opting to not repeat them. But you neither refrained nor learned, and you are left now to deal with the consequences. You are not entitled to demand that the rules change simply because you don’t want to control/learn to control your impulses.

[KaivaC]

Ah, then I guess I'm just doomed. I'll just give up on everything then. Thank you all for giving me the eyes to see that not a single person cares. Have a wonderful life. Lesson learn for me. Never bother to try and speak out. Always be pushed down and stepped on and laughed at. Got it.

Stop it. Seriously. Stop with the over-dramatics, stop with the self-pitying. You've been given options on what you need to do - quit going to such extremes just because some folks are not feeling sorry for your situation. A lot of good advice has been given throughout this entire thread, and it's something that you probably need to do. Take a step away from the game and just focus on yourself. I can promise you that your issues are not going to go away if you keep subjecting yourself to the same environment expecting different results when you are having a hard time controlling your impulses. Given the length of this thread, I can promise you that the mods probably have an eye on this - so chill, before you end up losing access to the forums.

Just take a break over the holidays - there is nothing currently that requires you to keep pushing yourself in this game. How about just taking a break until 4.5 comes out. Step away and start working on yourself. At this rate, with the posts you've made, you're only hurting your cause, not helping it.