Go ahead and do it, as I said repeatedly. Make SE know that you don't want to run them. But, according to what I've read, people like you are already bailing from these duties, and other ones are not even queueing. Yet the queues there aren't that terrible, aren't they? If you want to prove something, do it. Don't just make your opinions seem fact, without any actual data to prove anything.
I'm not whining, and it's not my opinion either. I'm still waiting for you to acknowledge the tank example that I provided, because it's exactly the same case of someone taking something, and ignoring how it was intended to be used because they're such special snowflakes.
Yes, that was their fail, and I've been saying that for years. If they had fixed it as they should, a lot of new players wouldn't have had their experiences ruined. And we wouldn't have all this MSQ drama time and again. But, while I'm the very first one to criticize SE (I'm not happy at all about a lot of things that they do, and it's not a secret), I'm not that blind to not see that the community is at fault of a lot of things, too.
But I have a question for you. If they made them soloable, as even I suggested, you wouldn't have the MSQ roulette anymore. Isn't it easier to just ignore it now, as if that change was already made? Why do some people keep whining about the MSQ roulette?
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No, they don't because they don't want to (or can't) devote the manpower that doing that would need. The amount of tickets that that would create would be higher than mount Fuji. That's why they rely on the community (rightfully or wrongly), and that's why we have the kick option for the NN, for example.
As I said, and you must've read it, they're free to drop from these duties. But they were fully aware that they could get them when they queued, so they shouldn't complain. When I'm not in the mood of doing something I just don't take the risk to maybe have to do it, and much less if I can affect someone else. I think that that's common sense.
It was, in fact, due to how people behave in there towards newbies. So, yes, they put that restriction in the duty finder because of that. When you add to it that the devs themselves were surprised that that was happening in the NA/EU servers, it's just a matter of doing 1+1. It's similar as to why we got so many doors in the dungeons due to how some people didn't like the extreme speedruns (and that's coming from someone that misses being able to pull everything up to the boss' room when running them with friends, but I understand that it caused too much trouble in the DF sometimes).