Quote Originally Posted by MoroMurasaki View Post
It seems like your desire for less sad and upset players only extends to people receiving advice, not to those giving it. I refuse to believe you don't understand that it upsets me when a dungeon drags out to double the length because of some combination of poor or uninformed play.

I have a question for you. Is something like this bad?

Bob is playing BRD in Hell's Lid. Bob is not using any songs. Carol is playing WHM but plays BRD a lot. Carol says 'Bob, If you just play a song as each song ends you'll unlock some extra abilities and give the party some buffs too. You can see if you're playing a song right above your Straight Shot gague.'

Is that abusive or bad? If you think it is in any way I can comfortably wash my hands of this conversation because you are completely unreachable.
Honestly,if you put in this terms yes I am sorry you feel in this way. I can understand the frustration and I don’t like fights or see people upset in general. I don’t get upset over people incompetence, I just expect will happen and that sometimes instances will be double of the length required.

No what you say is acceptable and not bad at all!
No the examples you made are not abusive or bad, I never say you are but many others are.
You are not toxic or offensive to others.