Quote Originally Posted by JohnSeal View Post
I don’t want to debate I want to sensible the community, I want less sad or upset players, less reports and a more friendly community that’s all!
If some at least understood how to talk to others in a better and constructive way I probably got a result
It seems like your desire for less sad and upset players only extends to people receiving advice, not to those giving it. I refuse to believe you don't understand that it upsets me when a dungeon drags out to double the length because of some combination of poor or uninformed play.

I have a question for you. Is something like this bad?

Bob is playing BRD in Hell's Lid. Bob is not using any songs. Carol is playing WHM but plays BRD a lot. Carol says 'Bob, If you just play a song as each song ends you'll unlock some extra abilities and give the party some buffs too. You can see if you're playing a song right above your Straight Shot gague.'

Is that abusive or bad? If you think it is in any way I can comfortably wash my hands of this conversation because you are completely unreachable.