Sexual harassment

[Alleo]

@MoroMurasaki: Yes that is still at least fine but I would still look out for each case and see if that person can take it right now or not. Sometimes its maybe better to only support them and maybe talk with them about this later, when they are less emotional impacted by this. People just need to remember that not everyone will take everything the same way and for some this might be too much.

@Rogatum: You know that something like depression which can turn into something much worse, is an illness that is far from rational? I know of people that went through it and said that they would have never believed how much this could change you and how they never had thought that they would have certain thoughts while they suffered from it. Thats why its always important that someone is under watchful eyes if they get medicine against it because it can increase it. I am just saying that people need to be tactful with dealing with such a situation. Maybe some can take it, maybe some dont. Thus saying that you always should point out the things that they did wrong might not be the best and make it worse. In the end nothing stops someone from talking about this when the worst passed.

For example in your case the talking of the police helped you, in other cases some people can be traumatised by this and need more help than that and maybe the talk with the police might have increased the panic. (And I am not really sure if sexual abuse over months by a person that you fully trusted is comparable with that)