Sexual harassment

[Solarra]

It's just online

I'm not sure if you were referring to the Moogle Post issue because that definitely was not just online. Anyway, it doesn't matter, online interactions are still subject to laws, it's not a special exempt zone where people can do what they like and face no consequences.

It's honestly a non-issue. If you gave nudes to someone online and were then blackmailed I mean... it sucks but ultimately it is your fault.

So, if you trust someone and they abuse your trust, that's your fault? And even if they go as far as blackmail, that's still completely on you? I disagree.
I'm not suggesting people shouldn't take steps to protect themselves, but a person who breaks someone's trust like that is still the one at fault, regardless.
Also see above: laws still apply.

You can't really be sexually harassed in a game, especially when you as a player have the tools to stop it, as well as a pretty supportive GM staff willing to assist.

Ha! So the creepy Guild leader who basically got me to the point where I chose to abandon another game and three characters I'd put a lot of time into, rather than deal with any more unwanted advances, suggestive gifts, creepy comments etc, wasn't really harassing me? It certainly felt real.

I'm not talking about a throwaway line about my character's looks or a single invite to ERP, this was weeks of following my character around and constant pestering via chat and in-game mail. I honestly don't think anyone who dismisses this sort of behaviour as trivial can have experienced it.