Quote Originally Posted by era1Ne View Post
Don't get me wrong, i still encourage and want them to get better aka try to dps, but when someone for example had an horrible experience in an dungeon and doesn't dps in the next run, then thats fine for the moment for me.
That's kind of an extreme example if you ask me. I'd be very sympathetic to a healer choosing not to DPS on some of the trash pulls we see now, whereas I wouldn't be quite so enamoured with a healer that chose not to do any DPS whatsoever on some of the bosses in the current Expert rotation (Many of which I'll do without casting a single cure). To clarify here, I'm not expecting sprouts to go gungho, decent regen and dot uptimes are enough to get a thumbs up from me for the most part.

Healers with confidence issues are all too common indeed though (My co healer for much of FCOB was a classic case of this) and in most cases I've seen, they've simply been their own worst enemy. Simply opening up and communicating a little helps so much in these situations, yet so few are willing to give it a go.