Is not dps'ing that rare?

[Lambdafish]

You are playing ACN so I assume that you are wanting to heal as SCH. SCH is a bit different to the other two healers when it comes to DPS because you have a fairy to support your healing and DPS skills that's support your healing. Don't worry so much if you can't, but SCH has many ways to create opportunities in which they don't have to heal and people use that as a chance to do extra DPS.

General rule of thumb: you don't have to be a pro MLG high DPS healer for people to be happy with your performance, so long as you have some awareness of when your party is taking damage and when you have downtime. You should learn your toolkit and find the skills which give you downtime (regen, aspects benefic, rouse), and at least weave in some sort of DPS just so you aren't idling, because it's the idling that people notice, not your damage numbers