Moogly, what you're doing here, is putting words into people's mouths and using strawman arguments. You're not really reading other people's arguments but arguing against something that you say some random "most people like this" are saying.

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First, you : you clearly ditch the YoshiP argument... Sorry, but whatever you will say, even if you're better than YoshiP at playing the game, YoshiP is the one creating it and balancing the data in it.... In fact, I still can't believe so many people are saying that YoshiP's vision of the game isn't relevant when in fact it is. I mean, he's the one manipulating the numbers inside you know...
I'm saying how the game actually works and is actually played is different from how it's talked about, and the latter is not relevant to the former. I also said you should consider Yoshi P and his team are the ones who have enforced healer DPS playstyle with their design. They have all the power to change it if they wish to do so, but instead they've been increasing its significance throughout the years - an even encouraged it in Novice Hall.

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And also, I noticed that when I talk about that aspect of the game, what I call the "personal" or "social" aspect, people say it's far fetched.... Remember we're playing a MMO, and though this might not be that significant to you, social interactions between players in this game are taken very seriously into account, and will influe on the game's mechanics and gameplay.
I said the logic behind your interpretation is far-fetched, I did not say personal or social aspects of the game are insignificant. Also, your premise was that people don't care if players are inexperienced and feel insecure because of that, but I already showed you several posts proving the opposite.

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You consider the healer forum only to talk technical ? Well, I consider it to be about any subject relevant to the healer class, which also includes this.
I did not say or mean to say it's only for this. I agree with you.

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Unlike a solo game, playing a multiplayer game isn't the same thing. That's why that constant call on pure healer to do some DPS can be percieved in the end as a selfish request.
Is it also selfish to ask a tank to use cooldowns, or do DPS? If there's a PLD who is inexperienced and only wants to use Flash and nothing else? Is it selfish to ask for a BRD or MCH to give some TP or MP to the party, even though they are inexperienced and want to focus on keeping up their DPS rotation? Is it selfish to ask for a DPS to Goad the tank or other DPS, or ask them to Stun something? Why would healers be the only ones whose feelings matter?