Oh yes I can, this is like if someone said they went on miner and after opening a node they got the botanist window, that doesn't happen, that's not how the game works, and I don't know why you don't want to accept that the game isn't broken, that maybe the monster was already aiming the aoe to that spot before you interacted with the node (mobs in both of those nodes have no aoe marker, just cleaves) taking out your stealth right before you interacted with the node. Worst case scenario it's a bug that literally only happens to you and no one else in the entiregame and you should report it in the bug reports section.
There's one constant and many variables here
http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/s...vBForum_Thread
Try to find the constant. (
and recommended read)
Well like I said you're free to not use them, those of us who do find use for them would like to keep using them instead of losing them.
People don't "choose" to attack you, in all those threads you started + all the others you didn't start but still went into an argument with other players you're the constant, you don't accept different opinions, you don't even entertain the idea that you might be wrong or that something wasn't handled well by you. If something keeps happening to you this often you could use some introspection.
For the last point, gathering and battle are not the same and should never be handled the same, for battle you have too many buttons to hit in a regular battle with more being added, for gathering it's 100% okay to have skills that are only useful in certain situations, because you're not supposed to be hitting every skill in the first place, crafting works the same way with many situational skills.