SE must be drunk.

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Just a comment because you are contradicting your previous point. The DPS choice doesn't actually impact your survivability. The current metagame for tanks allow for the best of both worlds. Doing more DPS as a tank doesn't cost survivability, likewise for having huge DPS as a healer doesn't make the fight harder. This is basically the conundrum for most players because they are stuck in this hollow concept of "if i am not in tank stance, healers cant heal me and i will die" or " if i dont keep healing, everyone will die" which is far from the truth. This is basically differetiation from level of competency and skills. The gap is too big.