When I go into DF, I'll look at the group, if I have a smn or blm in group, I'll pull as big as I feel I can handle, but I'm not going to pull 3-4 sets of mobs if I have a composition like mnk/drg/nin that, in my opinion just slows things down more than anything. as for dps, I only expect things to die, I don't care how long it takes, because as a tank, I can manage my cd's just fine and trust my healer to do the same for mp management. I never expect a healer to dps, and if they do, it's a pleasant surprise. Sometimes i'll get slower dps players and guess what I do then? Adjust accordingly. There is literally zero point in screaming at them or anything else, as you'll never see them again, they'll never see you again. It's far better to just have a decent, pleasant run, than cause the friction and tension that qq'ing about numbers causes most of the time. People need to just get over themselves. the other 3 players aren't there to meet your personal requirements, and you're not there to dictate their abilities. This has nothing to do with "feelings" or "morality" it's just common sense. Act like a douchebag, get treated like one. If you want to look like a moron raging about "sub-par deepz" more power to you, just know that you don't help anything by being like that, and, if anything, just gets you to look stupid, and has the other 3 people in your group laughing at you.