People are deliberately ruining the story for others

[Duuude007]

Everyone should be considerate enough to ensure that everyone in the party can get what they're there for.
If someone's there for tomes then nobody should do anything that will prevent them from getting that tome reward.

Shared goal from all parties, therefore struck from the record. Everyone goes for mixed reasons, but tomes is always on the list. You are giving up nothing at all.

If someone's there for the story then the party should respect the player's desire and not pressure them to skip cutscenes.

Fixed. This is the concession seasoned players offer in all story parties that I have been a part of since at least 2.5-

Now I will add another.

If someone's there for efficiency then the party should respect the player's desire and not pressure them to sit on their hands while the player goes idle in the middle of a dungeon for thirty minutes.

There are ways to find compromise, and if you choose not to compromise, you do not have to;
but know this:
Party members are well within their right to boot you if you disrupt progression that you disagree with as a minority voting member.

If all of this is too difficult of a concept to wrap your head around, party finder is available. Or FC friends. Or LS friends. or Shouts. Four options that I had mentioned before. Plus you don't even need 8 people, just 4 apart from your own self. Because whether you like it or not, majority rules in FFXIV party disputes, and always has.